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<channel><title><![CDATA[MELANIE FIGG - WRITER, TEACHER & PROFESSIONAL CERTIFIED COACH - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 22:19:08 -0400</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Creative Ways to Ring in the New Year: some annual rituals that I want to share with you]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/creative-ways-to-ring-in-the-new-year-some-annual-rituals-that-i-want-to-share-with-you]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/creative-ways-to-ring-in-the-new-year-some-annual-rituals-that-i-want-to-share-with-you#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 30 Dec 2024 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/creative-ways-to-ring-in-the-new-year-some-annual-rituals-that-i-want-to-share-with-you</guid><description><![CDATA[ &#8203;I have a fun tradition that I do the last week of December or the first week of January that I find to be insightful and inspiring. I tend to focus my questions on&nbsp;The Writing Life, but you can focus on whatever area of life you want (family, retirement, career, wellness, etc.).   1. First, I close out the previous year - with a generous eye! - and note some&nbsp;achievements, like: I ran a successful women's writing retreat. I started sending out new poems for publication (and reje [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/published/painted-face-daniel-apodaca-smaller.jpg?1763091404" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><br /><font size="3"><span>&#8203;<br /><br />I have a fun tradition that I do the last week of December or the first week of January that I find to be insightful and inspiring. I tend to focus my questions on&nbsp;</span><strong>The Writing Life</strong><span>, but you can focus on whatever area of life you want (family, retirement, career, wellness, etc.).</span></font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">1. First, I close out the previous year - with a generous eye! - and note some&nbsp;<strong>achievements</strong>, like: I ran a successful women's writing retreat. I started sending out new poems for publication (and rejection!) again. I applied for a few grants, and won one.&nbsp;<em><strong>What were your accomplishments in 2024?</strong></em><br /><br />2. I also note some&nbsp;<strong>challenges</strong>&nbsp;with the previous year, too. I get complete with the fact of what happened, and either let it go (it is OK to quit stuff!), or I make a plan so it works better next year. Like, I haven't written as much as I would have liked, and I'm committed to put in a few structures to remedy that in the coming year.&nbsp;<em><strong>Where have you not made as much headway as you would have liked last year?</strong></em><br /><br />3. Next, I turn to the new year. I often do a tarot reading, and I also like to&nbsp;<strong>journal</strong>&nbsp;for a bit. You can ask yourself:&nbsp;<em>What 2-3 things do I want to focus on in the coming year?</em>&nbsp;Try to make them concrete and achievable but also inspiring to you.&nbsp;For me, I want to create and offer a new class, and I want to conduct a research trip to New England for my current writing project (hopefully winnning a grant to pay for it!).&nbsp;<em><strong>What's something you want to do in 2025?</strong></em><br /><br />4. To call in the New Year, I also create a&nbsp;<strong>collage</strong>. I love collaging because you don't have to be a good at drawing or sketching to do it. I just use images from whatever magazines I have in the house, and glue them onto a regular piece of copy paper. Collaging is a fun way to create a visual reminder for myself, and I put the collage above my writing desk so I can see it often.&nbsp;<em><strong>If you were to make a collage for your writing life in the coming year, what images/words might you include?</strong></em><br /><br />5. Next, I like to "interview" the collage. I write my answers on the back of the collage, so it's handy. Here are some questions to consider:&nbsp;</span><ul><li><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>What qualities do I want to create in the new year?&nbsp;</em></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>What are 1 or 2 habits, that I want to focus on?&nbsp;</em></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>Who do I want to be for myself, or my writing project, in the coming year?</em></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>Is there one word - like Generosity, or Power, or Balance -&nbsp;that I want to be my mantra for the new year?</em></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>Is there something surprising about the collage? What might that have to do with the new year, or my writing project?</em></span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>What does the next year want to offer me? What does it hope I learn?</em></span></li></ul> <span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">As the year proceeds, I re-visit the collage and see if there are new connections, or I make a new collage.&nbsp;If you try this exercise yourself, I'd love to hear how it goes! Best wishes for a creative 2025.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How 64 books helped me get through a really rough 2023]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/how-64-books-helped-meget-through-a-really-rough-2023]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/how-64-books-helped-meget-through-a-really-rough-2023#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2024 01:37:48 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/how-64-books-helped-meget-through-a-really-rough-2023</guid><description><![CDATA[       For the past few years, I've shared with you some of the best books I read in the previous year. 2023 was a tough year for me. In January, my husband and I began a pretty grueling divorce process that took most of the year. In August, a pinched nerve in my neck had me take a deep dive into physical pain and&nbsp;months of physical therapy.&nbsp;And in the final months of 2023, my 98-year-old father moved into assisted living and died on December 30.During the past year, 64 books were my e [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/published/hush-naidoo-jade-photography-2cdzdz90m90-unsplash.jpg?1705023979" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a" size="4">For the past few years, I've shared with you some of the best books I read in the previous year. 2023 was a tough year for me. In January, my husband and I began a pretty grueling divorce process that took most of the year. In August, a pinched nerve in my neck had me take a deep dive into physical pain and&nbsp;months of physical therapy.&nbsp;And in the final months of 2023, my 98-year-old father moved into assisted living and died on December 30.<br /><br />During the past year, 64 books were my escape and my&nbsp; companions, my guides, distractions, salves, and anchors. There were a few clunkers I won't bother to mention, but here's my love song to books and writing...<br /><br /><u><strong>COMFORT READS</strong></u>:&nbsp;<br />My focus sucked in 2023, and I was anxious a lot, to say the least. So I re-read one of my favorite novels,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-prayer-for-owen-meany-john-irving/6433469?ean=9780062299567" target="_blank">A Prayer for Owen Meany</a>&nbsp;by John Irving. It's one of the most perfectly structured novels ever. It has tons of laugh-out-loud scenes balanced with some of the most tender moments I've ever read. I also re-read a bunch of easy but&nbsp;<a href="https://lauralippman.com/all-books-in-order/" target="_blank">good mysteries set in Baltimore</a>&nbsp;by Laura Lippman,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-uncoupling-meg-wolitzer/587278?ean=9781594485657" target="_blank">The Uncoupling</a>&nbsp;by Meg Wolitzer, and took it easy with Kate DiCamillo's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-beatryce-prophecy-kate-dicamillo/18655879?ean=9781536226454" target="_blank">The Beatryce Prophecy</a>.<br /><br /><u><strong>READING FOR MY JOB AS A WRITING COACH</strong></u>: I am always reading books that I can recommend to my clients, or that help me do my job better. Two great examples:&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/refuse-to-be-done-how-to-write-and-rewrite-a-novel-in-three-drafts-matt-bell/17243106?ean=9781641293419" target="_blank">Refuse To De Done</a>&nbsp;by Matt Bell and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-creative-act-a-way-of-being-rick-rubin/18543579?ean=9780593652886" target="_blank">The Creative ACT: A Way of Being</a>&nbsp;by Rick Rubin. A terrific book on craft, and a true love story to the short story is&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-swim-in-a-pond-in-the-rain-in-which-four-russians-give-a-master-class-on-writing-reading-and-life-george-saunders/14594710?ean=9781984856036" target="_blank">A Swim in the Pond in the Rain: In Which Four Russians give a Master Class on Writing, Reading and Life</a>&nbsp;by George Saunders. Saunders takes you through a handful of class short stories - teaching you how they work, charm, and astound the reader as he goes. One of my favorite books!<br /><br /><u><strong>AUDIO BOOKS</strong></u>: During the worst moments of back pain when I couldn't really hold books, I tried some fiction via audio book. While the books were great -&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-vaster-wilds-lauren-groff/19900858?ean=9780593418390" target="_blank">The Vaster Wilds</a>&nbsp;by Lauren Groff,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-dutch-house-ann-patchett/8030937?ean=9780062963680" target="_blank">The Dutch House</a>&nbsp;by Ann Patchett,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/galatea-a-short-story-madeline-miller/18369132?ean=9780063280519" target="_blank">Galatea</a>&nbsp;by Madeline Miller,&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-museum-of-extraordinary-things-alice-hoffman/7061624?ean=9781451693577" target="_blank">The Museum of Extraordinary Things</a>&nbsp;by Alice Hoffman, and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-puppets-of-spelhorst-kate-dicamillo/19660446?ean=9781536216752" target="_blank">The Puppets of Spelhorst</a>&nbsp;by Kate DiCamillo - I confirmed that I hate listening to novels.&nbsp;<br /><br /><u><strong>FICTION</strong></u>: Some talented novelists distracted and relaxed me with their good storytelling and writing: Claire Keegan's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/foster-claire-keegan/17839847?ean=9780802160140" target="_blank">Foster</a>, Lynn Steger Strong's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/flight-lynn-steger-strong/18249648?ean=9780063135147" target="_blank">Flight</a>, Celeste Ng's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/our-missing-hearts-celeste-ng/18057134?ean=9780593492666" target="_blank">Our Missing Hearts</a>, Emma Straub's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/this-time-tomorrow-emma-straub/17736339?ean=9780525539018" target="_blank">This Time Tomorrow</a>, Rebecca Makkai's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/i-have-some-questions-for-you-rebecca-makkai/18490223?ean=9780593490143" target="_blank">I Have Some Questions for You</a>,&nbsp;Anne Youngson's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/meet-me-at-the-museum-anne-youngson/6986073?ean=9781250295170" target="_blank">Meet Me at the Museum</a>, and Ann Patchett's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/tom-lake-ann-patchett/19520433?ean=9780063327528" target="_blank">Tom Lake</a>. I hated the focus on the white guys and the FBI in Killers of the Flower Moon, but loved the novel&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/mean-spirit-linda-hogan/6763015?ean=9781501112454" target="_blank">Mean Spirit</a>, which Chickasaw poet and novelist&nbsp;<a href="https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poets/linda-hogan" target="_blank">Linda Hogan</a>&nbsp;wrote about the Osage people and those same murders way back in 1991. Check it out.<br /><br /><u><strong>ESSAYS &amp; MEMOIR</strong></u>:<br />I re-read the classic&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-boys-of-my-youth-jo-ann-beard/109433?ean=9780316085250" target="_blank">The Boys of My Youth</a>&nbsp;by Jo Ann Beard and loved&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-crane-wife-a-memoir-in-essays-cj-hauser/18580847?ean=9780593312889" target="_blank">The Crane Wife</a>&nbsp;by CJ Hauser (after the title essay went viral during COVID), and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/west-with-the-night-with-headphones-beryl-markham/15548524?ean=9780865477636" target="_blank">West with the Night</a>&nbsp;by Beryl Markham (what a life she led!). Poet Maggie Smith's memoir about her divorce,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/you-could-make-this-place-beautiful-a-memoir-maggie-smith/18566391?ean=9781982185855" target="_blank">You Could Make This Place Beautiful</a>, helped articulate a lot of what I was feeling last year. I also really liked Peggy Orenstein's funny and super&nbsp; informative&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/unraveling-what-i-learned-about-life-while-shearing-sheep-dyeing-wool-and-making-the-world-s-ugliest-sweater-peggy-orenstein/18727193?ean=9780063081727" target="_blank">Unraveling: What I Learned about Life Shearing Sheep, Dying Wool, and Making the World's Ugliest Sweater</a>,&nbsp;Juliet Paterson's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/sinkhole-a-legacy-of-suicide-juliet-patterson/17880692?ean=9781571311764" target="_blank">Sinkhole</a>, and Margaret Kimball's graphic memoir,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/and-now-i-spill-the-family-secrets-an-illustrated-memoir-margaret-kimball/14939783?ean=9780063007444" target="_blank">And Now I Spill the Family Secrets</a>. And I absolutely loved Sabrina Orah Mark's memoir in essays about fairy tales, <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/671923/happily-by-sabrina-orah-mark/" target="_blank">Happily</a>.<br /><br /><u><strong>EXCEPTIONAL LITERARY FICTION</strong></u>: Thanks to my writing buddy, there were a few windows where I tackled some challenging new authors, and was thrilled to discover the astonishing 1952 novel,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-forbidden-notebook-alba-de-cespedes/18759807?ean=9781662601392" target="_blank">Forbidden Notebook</a>, by the Italian-Cubist feminist writer, Alda de Cespedes.&nbsp;<em>Wow wow wow.</em>&nbsp;And after Annie Ernaux won the 2022 Nobel Prize, I dug into her rich opus that re-imagines memoir, memory, history, and language with&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-girl-s-story-annie-ernaux/18533487?ean=9781609809515" target="_blank">A Girl's Story,</a>&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/happening-annie-ernaux/18541143?ean=9781609809485" target="_blank">Happening</a>, and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-years-winner-of-the-2022-nobel-prize-in-literature-annie-ernaux/18969887?ean=9781609807870" target="_blank">The Years</a>. A lot more women writers need to be translated into English.<br /><br /><u><strong>POETRY</strong></u>: I am always reading poetry to find new books to teach, or just enjoy. Some of my favorite collections last year were:&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-raft-of-grief-chelsea-rathburn/10616189?ean=9781932870794" target="_blank">A Raft of Grief</a>&nbsp;by Chelsea Rathburn,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/west-a-translation-paisley-rekdal/18625819?ean=9781556596568" target="_blank">West: A Translation</a>&nbsp;by Paisley Rekdal,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/white-blood-a-lyric-of-virginia-kiki-petrosino/8295529?ean=9781946448545" target="_blank">White Blood: A Lyric of Virginia</a>&nbsp;by Kiki Petrosino,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/wilder-poems-claire-wahmanholm/8997352?ean=9781571315069" target="_blank">Wilder</a>&nbsp;by Claire Wahmanholm, Deborah Keenan's&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-saint-of-everything-deborah-keenan/20000059?ean=9780899241890" target="_blank">The Saint of Everything</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/selected-poems-gwendolyn-brooks/8856556?ean=9780060882969" target="_blank">Selected Poems</a>&nbsp;of Gwendolyn Brooks, and three books by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poets/louise-gluck" target="_blank">Louse Gluck</a>&nbsp;(R.I.P.).<br /><br />I'm glad 2023 is over, and I'm proud of how I got through it. I hope you're doing well, and 2024 is a space of peace and possibility for all of us. What did you read last year?</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Do you dread the blank page?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/do-you-dread-the-blank-page]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/do-you-dread-the-blank-page#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jun 2023 23:25:30 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/do-you-dread-the-blank-page</guid><description><![CDATA[       &#8203;Recently I had an illuminating discussion with a private coaching client of mine, and realized what could be behind some writers' dread of the blank page. First, let me ask you this:&nbsp;who holds the pen when you journal?Is it the calm, grounded, wise self?Or is it often the anxious self, the worrier, the list maker, the nasty bully?&nbsp;I recently threw out years of old journals - it was a very liberating moment! Inside most of those journals were pages of worry, self-doubt, ti [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/bfb94eda-21b8-5bff-87dd-2fa35f556ef4_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="4"><em>&#8203;</em>Recently I had an illuminating discussion with a private coaching client of mine, and realized what could be behind some writers' dread of the blank page. First, let me ask you this:&nbsp;<em style=""><strong>who holds the pen when you journal?</strong></em><br />Is it the calm, grounded, wise self?<br />Or is it often the anxious self, the worrier, the list maker, the nasty bully?&nbsp;<br /><br />I recently threw out years of old journals - it was a very liberating moment! Inside most of those journals were pages of worry, self-doubt, tired grievances, even self-hatred. Lots of meanness spewed out in an attempt to "clear my head" that often left me feeling cranked up and vaguely crappy. Me on auto-pilot, with my Inner Critic holding the pen.<br /><br />Of course, if I am writing consciously about a tough issue, with the Wise Self holding the pen, it's a whole other ballgame. Then the journal, and journal writing, becomes a place of insight, clarity, and calm. But if I'm rehashing things that annoy me, or rehearsing the zinger I wish I had delivered way back then... (anyone else do that?), then I'm just grinding over outdated narratives about me and my life that don't uplift me at all. Those journal entries keep me stuck, and angry, and all kinds of yuck.<br /><br />So...if that sounds at all familiar to you, then you gotta ask yourself:&nbsp;if I let the Inner Critic have the pen for a blank journal page, then who is the me who greets the blank page to write a poem, essay, or chapter of my novel?&nbsp;<br /><br />No wonder you don't want to sit down and write! It's like passing the dog leash to Cruella De Vil. Who wants that?<br /><br />But what if you invited your Wise Self to your writing time? What if you gave them the pen, and told the Inner Critic to sit in the time-out chair? What might happen then? How might your writing time become easier, more rewarding, and something you want to return to the next day? Something to think about, friends.&nbsp;</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gobs of Books Recommendations for you!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/gobs-of-books-recommendations-for-you]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/gobs-of-books-recommendations-for-you#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2023 13:49:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/gobs-of-books-recommendations-for-you</guid><description><![CDATA[       It's time for me to jump on my soapbox and spread the word&nbsp;about all the&nbsp;great books I read last year. In 2021, I read 61 books. In 2022, I read 108 books! A personal best - and a record I'm not going to sweat to break in 2023.Yep, 61 to 108 is a serious jump. Some of that is the&nbsp;15 poetry books I read in August for The Sealey Challenge (less than half of its lofty goal&nbsp;to read a collection each day!), and some is when I hit the skids with post-Covid malaise and read a [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/ziggy-on-book-yr-end-booklist-or-what-are-you-rdg_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">It's time for me to jump on my soapbox and spread the word&nbsp;about all the&nbsp;great books I read last year. In 2021, I read 61 books. In 2022, I read 108 books! A personal best - and a record I'm not going to sweat to break in 2023.<br /><br />Yep, 61 to 108 is a serious jump. Some of that is the&nbsp;15 poetry books I read in August for <a href="https://www.thesealeychallenge.com/" target="_blank">The Sealey Challenge</a> (less than half of its lofty goal&nbsp;to read a collection each day!), and some is when I hit the skids with post-Covid malaise and read a lot from&nbsp;Kate DiCamillo's wonderful&nbsp;opus for children.<br /><br />Part of what makes my annual reading challenge so fun&nbsp;is that I track all my books in&nbsp;<a href="https://www.thestorygraph.com/" target="_blank">StoryGraph</a>. StoryGraph is terrific. It's free, created by an African-American woman, and it has really&nbsp;cool features like insightful stats and clear graphics about&nbsp;your reading habits. It also&nbsp;offers terrific recommendations and isn't owned by Amazon like Goodreads. (To move all your data from Goodreads to StoryGraph takes just a couple of easy clicks!)<br /><br />At some point last year, I stumbled upon this <a href="https://bookshop.org/lists/books-by-native-indigenous-writers?page=2" target="_blank">great list of books by native and indigenous writers</a> from Elissa Washuta, and enjoyed a lot of great reads - many of which are in this newsletter. Here, in no particular order, are some of my favorites recent reads that I highly&nbsp;recommend.<br /><br /><strong><u>POETRY</u>:</strong>&nbsp;<br /><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-wild-fox-of-yemen-poems-threa-almontaser/14670573?ean=9781644450505" target="_blank">The Wild Fox of Yemen</a> by Threa Almontaser, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-they-come-for-us-poems-fatimah-asghar/12072692?ean=9780525509783" target="_blank">If They Come for Us </a>by Fatimah Asghar, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/1919-eve-l-ewing/16672465?ean=9781608465989" target="_blank">1919</a> by Eve Ewing, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/indigo-ellen-bass/8339480?ean=9781556595752" target="_blank">Indigo</a> by Ellen Bass,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/girls-are-coming-out-of-the-woods-tishani-doshi/8338806?ean=9781556595509" target="_blank">Girls are Coming Out of the Woods</a> by Tishani Doshi, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/averno-poems-louise-gluck/15494032?ean=9780374530747" target="_blank">Averno</a> by Louise Gluck,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-line-of-driftwood-the-ada-blackjack-story-diane-glancy/15197905?ean=9781933527215" target="_blank">A Line of Driftwood: The Ada Blackjack Story</a> by Diane Glancy,&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/now-do-you-know-where-you-are-dana-levin/17305725?ean=9781556596339" target="_blank">Now Do You Know Where You Are</a> by Dana Levin, and <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/come-the-slumberless-to-the-land-of-nod-traci-brimhall/8339631?ean=9781556595806" target="_blank">Come the Slumberless to the Land of Nod</a>&nbsp;by Traci Brimhall. Perhaps the book that moved me the most was&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/prognosis-poems-jim-moore/15911477?ean=9781644450703" target="_blank">Prognosis</a> by Minneapolis poet Jim Moore,&nbsp;written during quarantine and the efforts for justice after&nbsp;the murder of George Floyd.<br /><br /><u><strong>MEMOIR/ESSAY</strong></u>:<br />My favorites:&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/safekeeping-some-true-stories-from-a-life-abigail-thomas/8683404?ean=9780385720557" target="_blank">Safekeeping</a> by Agibail Thomas is a gorgeous memoir that I wish I'd read years ago, as it opens up ways to tell the story of a life in small, pungent, often funny vignettes; her memoir <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-three-dog-life-abigail-thomas/6684101?ean=9780156033237" target="_blank">A Three-Dog Life</a> is great, too.&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-witch-of-eye-kathryn-nuernberger/14124060?ean=9781946448705" target="_blank">The Witch of Eye</a> by Kathryn Nuernberger is so smart and lovely, with each essay investigating the "horrors inflicted on so-called "witches" of the past."&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/these-precious-days-essays-ann-patchett/18273089?ean=9780063092785" target="_blank">These Precious Days</a>&nbsp;by the wonderful Ann Patchett is a collection of essays rooted in Covid lockdown that offer comfort, deep wisdom, and humor.<br /><br />A very strong and engaging collection of essays about gun violence and gun culture is <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/carry-a-memoir-of-survival-on-stolen-land-toni-jensen/13565898?ean=9781984821201" target="_blank">Carry: A Memoir of Survival on Stolen Land</a> by Toni Jensen.&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-1619-project-a-new-origin-story-jake-silverstein/16383226?ean=9780593230572" target="_blank">The 1619 Project: A New Origin Story</a> edited by Nikole Hannah-Jones expands on the New York Times magazine initiative;&nbsp;each stand-alone chapter is written by a guest writer. If you need something smart and light, with moments of wry wisdom, there is&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/happy-go-lucky/18842704?ean=9780316392457" target="_blank">Happy Go Lucky </a>and <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-carnival-of-snackery-diaries-2003-2020-david-sedaris/18834416?ean=9780316558792" target="_blank">A Carnival of Snackery: Diaries (2003-2020)</a> by David Sedaris.&nbsp;<br /><br />Other good ones are Emily Bernard's essay collection, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/black-is-the-body-stories-from-my-grandmother-s-time-my-mother-s-time-and-mine-emily-bernard/8611040?ean=9781101972410" target="_blank">Black Is The Body&nbsp;</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/don-t-let-me-be-lonely-an-american-lyric-claudia-rankine/18579907?ean=9781555974077" target="_blank">Don't Let Me Be Lonely: An American Lyric</a> by the incomparable Claudia Rankine. I finally read <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/braiding-sweetgrass-robin-wall-kimmerer/16712606?ean=9781571313560" target="_blank">Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants</a> by botanist Robin Wall Kimmerer and don't know why I waited - each stand-alone essay is fascinating! My favorites were about maple sugar trees, sweetgrass, cattails, and about how to make black ash baskets starting from choosing the tree.&nbsp;<br /><br /><u><strong>CRAFT</strong></u>:<br /><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-art-of-revision-the-last-word-peter-ho-davies/15911468?ean=9781644450390" target="_blank">The Art of Revision</a> by Peter Ho Davies is a game-changer! (See my <a href="https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/on-revision" target="_blank">review</a>.)&nbsp;For years, I've led writing workshops using the groundbreaking process of Liz Lerman. This year, she explores the process she created decades ago in&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/critique-is-creative-the-critical-response-process-r-in-theory-and-action-liz-lerman/17376875?ean=9780819577184" target="_blank">Critique is Creative: The Critical Response Process in Theory and Action</a> by Liz Lerman and John Borstel. Lerman's process is also referenced in&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/the-anti-racist-writing-workshop-how-to-decolonize-the-creative-classroom/9781642592672" target="_blank">The Anti-Racist Writing&nbsp;Workshop</a>&nbsp;by Felicia Rose Chavez, which is full of insight and practical advice.<br /><br />Puzzled about reading poetry and want an easier way to appreciate poems? Then check out the latest book by Stephanie Burt:&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/don-t-read-poetry-a-book-about-how-to-read-poems-stephanie-burt/18831480?ean=9780465094509" target="_blank">Don't Read Poetry: A Book about How to Read Poems</a>. Burt&nbsp;<strong>"</strong>dispels preconceptions about poetry and explains how poems speak to one another - and how they can speak to our lives." With the simple comparison of poetry and music "she shows readers how to find more poems once they have some poems they like." You would never say "I don't get music" the way people say "I don't get poetry." With music, you might like jazz not hiphop, or prefer heavy metal to disco. Poetry is vast like music, too. So, Burt shows you how to find poems with which you'll connect and enjoy.&nbsp;<br /><br />For a wonderful memoir/craft book, check out Melissa Febos' <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/body-work-the-radical-power-of-personal-narrative-melissa-febos/17316037?ean=9781646220854" target="_blank">Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative</a>&nbsp;in which she uses her profound thinking and usual badass candor to give us&nbsp;permission to tell our&nbsp;stories,&nbsp;write&nbsp;about sex and our bodies with courage and honesty.&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/shapes-of-native-nonfiction-collected-essays-by-contemporary-writers-elissa-washuta/6624879?ean=9780295745756" target="_blank">Shapes of Native Nonfiction: Collected Essays by Contemporary Writers</a> edited by Elissa Washuta and Theresa Warburton is a great read and resource.<br /><br /><u><strong>FICTION</strong></u>:&nbsp;<br /><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-hired-man-aminatta-forna/12459366?ean=9780802121929" target="_blank">The Hired Man</a> by Aminatta Forna may be one of my favorite novels of the past decade; Forna can write about the effects of war with such subtlety and insight (her book <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/happiness-aminatta-forna/12469168?ean=9780802129185" target="_blank">Happiness</a> is terrific, too).&nbsp;As a lap swimmer at my local Y, I really enjoyed&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-swimmers-julie-otsuka/17175809?ean=9780593321331" target="_blank">The Swimmers</a> by Julie Otsuka.&nbsp;The page-turner, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-break-katherena-vermette/1183283?ean=9781487001117" target="_blank">The Break</a> by Katherena Vermette, explored sexual violence and its aftermath, and included so many memorable female characters.&nbsp;Lauren Groff's short stories in&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/florida-lauren-groff/588707?ean=9781594634529" target="_blank">Florida</a>&nbsp;are sometimes grim but all pretty great.&nbsp;I also loved&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-dutch-house-ann-patchett/8030937?ean=9780062963680" target="_blank">The Dutch House</a> by Anne Patchett,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/matrix-lauren-groff/16278801?ean=9781594634505" target="_blank">Matrix</a>&nbsp;by Lauren Groff,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-sentence-louise-erdrich/17388336?ean=9780062671127" target="_blank">The Sentence</a> by Louise Erdrich, and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/music-for-wartime-stories-rebecca-makkai/11708680?ean=9780143109235" target="_blank">Music for Wartime</a>: stories by Rebecca Makkai.<br /><br />Thank god for funny novels! I thoroughly enjoyed the funny and charming&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/lessons-in-chemistry-bonnie-garmus/17422983?ean=9780385547345" target="_blank">Lessons in Chemistry</a> by Bonnie Garmus,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-from-aways-cj-hauser/6433748?ean=9780062310750" target="_blank">The From-Aways</a> by C.J. Hauser, and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/remarkably-bright-creatures-shelby-van-pelt/18727240?ean=9780063204157" target="_blank">Remarkably Bright Creatures</a>&nbsp;by Shelby Van Pelt - in which part of the story is told in the voice of an octopus! I also loved&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/now-is-not-the-time-to-panic-kevin-wilson/18542533?ean=9780062913500" target="_blank">Now is Not the Time to Panic</a> by Kevin Wilson (author of the absolutely awesome, <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/nothing-to-see-here-kevin-wilson/19154266?ean=9780062913494" target="_blank">Nothing to See Here</a> about a set of combustible twins!)<br /><br />There aren't enough superlatives for Kate DiCamillo. In 2022, I read a handful of her delightful books for young people. I especially loved&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-magician-s-elephant-kate-dicamillo/1517388?ean=9780763680886" target="_blank">The Magician's Elephant</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/flora-and-ulysses-the-illuminated-adventures-kate-dicamillo/228994?ean=9780763687649" target="_blank">Flora and Ulysses,</a>(it's about a superhero pet squirrel who types poetry!)&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-tiger-rising-kate-dicamillo/6865068?ean=9780763680879" target="_blank">The Tiger Rising,</a> and <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/because-of-winn-dixie-kate-dicamillo/15530517?ean=9781536214352" target="_blank">Because of Winn Dixie</a>. If you don't know her work, I am sorry your life is so drab...so&nbsp;just go get them all, and let their awesome illustrations and hilarious and poignant stories do their work on you.<br /><br />If you are giving&nbsp;books as gifts this year, I encourage you to buy them from your <strong>local independent bookstore </strong>when you're able to do so.&nbsp;<em><strong>What have you been reading?</strong></em></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dreaming of a Novel or Memoir? How to Train for the Writer’s Marathon]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/dreaming-of-a-novel-or-memoir-how-to-train-for-the-writers-marathon]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/dreaming-of-a-novel-or-memoir-how-to-train-for-the-writers-marathon#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/dreaming-of-a-novel-or-memoir-how-to-train-for-the-writers-marathon</guid><description><![CDATA[       This post originally appeared as s blog post for The Loft Literary Center. Below in its entirety:Sometimes as writers we work on small things&mdash;some flash fiction, an essay or short story. We do a pretty good job managing our time and finishing our work. But then there are times when our dreams are bigger, and we want to tackle a large writing project&mdash;like a novel or a memoir. How do we prepare for the marathon versus the sprints we&rsquo;re used to?First, don&rsquo;t panic. And [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/published/miguel-a-amutio-tqofebqnqri-unsplash.jpg?1668561663" alt="Picture" style="width:847;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">This post originally appeared as s <a href="https://loft.org/writers-block-blog/dreaming-novel-or-memoir-how-train-writers-marathon" target="_blank">blog post</a> for The Loft Literary Center. Below in its entirety:<br /><br />Sometimes as writers we work on small things&mdash;some flash fiction, an essay or short story. We do a pretty good job managing our time and finishing our work. But then there are times when our dreams are bigger, and we want to tackle a large writing project&mdash;like a novel or a memoir. How do we prepare for the marathon versus the sprints we&rsquo;re used to?<br />First, don&rsquo;t panic. And don&rsquo;t chicken out! Don't get daunted by the size of it or the newness of it. You&rsquo;ve done this before, just in smaller pieces. Yes, there are new things to learn with a big project, but you&rsquo;re skilled, and ready, and willing to learn. With a bit of planning, and a wider lens, you can see your large writing projects over the finish line, too. You just need to get organized a bit.<br /><br /><strong>Organize your space</strong><br />If you&rsquo;re able, create a dedicated work space for your project. Do you have a home office or a desk in a corner of a room where you can leave your notebook open? If space is tight, no worries. If you work on your laptop at the kitchen table, is there a bookshelf or a box where you can keep your notes and resources? The key here is a gather all your materials in one place to keep your project visible and accessible.<br />Once you have your physical space organized, it&rsquo;s time to organize your headspace!<br />Those three pounds of gray matter . . . often the biggest barrier for writers. It&rsquo;s important to begin to mute the negative self-talk soundtrack in your head so you can stay balanced and in action. The goal isn&rsquo;t to kill off your inner critics but rather to befriend them, to turn the volume down, to learn how to work with them. (For instance, your Perfectionist needs to be muted while you&rsquo;re generating your first drafts, but she&rsquo;ll come in very handy when it&rsquo;s time to copyedit and proofread during the final laps.) As you can imagine, the bulk of my work with writers is focused on managing inner critics and other resistances. It takes commitment, mindfulness, and compassion to rein in your inner critics, but it&rsquo;s essential to your mental health, the longevity of your writing career, and the quality of your daily life.&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>Organize your time&nbsp;</strong><br />Obviously, if you&rsquo;re going to write a book, you need to make time to do the work. This step takes some basic math, realistic planning, and steady accountability to stay on track&mdash;it also requires dealing with reality. A writing schedule only works if it works in your life situation. Realistic planning keeps goals do-able and overwhelm in check. How many words/pages have you got so far, and how many do you need for a first draft? Ok, got it. Now, how many pages/words can you write in a week? Do the math based on your real life, not an ideal week, because that never happens. Then, set a general goal (&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll have a first draft done by the end of the summer&rdquo; or whatever), so the finish line is in sight.&nbsp;<br />You might also need some tough love to look at where you are spending some of your time. We all waste time, but now some of that time can be spent on your project. A few shifts in your routine can help you build your writing habits over time.&nbsp;<br />If you want to reach a big writing goal, then you&rsquo;ll need to schedule time in your week to do the work. Without &ldquo;writing appointments&rdquo; in your calendar, you won&rsquo;t reach your goal. You just won&rsquo;t. It&rsquo;s like the saying goes:&nbsp;<em>A goal without a plan is just a dream</em>.&nbsp;<br />There will be ups and downs. What matters most is returning your butt to the chair, building community to help when you&rsquo;re discouraged, and having a ridiculous, badass faith in yourself and your work.&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>Organize your project&nbsp;</strong><br />Once you&rsquo;ve set realistic goals and are building the habit of organizing your schedule to include specific writing times, you will want to continue to organize the project itself. This is something that you might have already done, or sort of done, but it&rsquo;s essential to staying motivated, managing overwhelm, and using your time well.&nbsp;<br />There&rsquo;s no right way to tackle a big writing project, but there are some things that help a lot:<ul style="color:rgb(62, 69, 67)"><li>Some kind of road map (maybe it&rsquo;s a detailed outline, or maybe it&rsquo;s some good notes and a sense of where you&rsquo;re headed) can save you a lot of time, tears, and dead ends.&nbsp;</li><li>Be clear about the different elements of your project (research, generating, plotting, revising) and do those elements at the right time.&nbsp;</li><li>Continue to develop your writing skills with classes, workshops, and craft books.&nbsp;</li><li>Fold in other writers, readers, coaches, and editors when you&rsquo;re ready. Writing itself can feel isolating, so build community and reach out.</li></ul><br />The writing life can be a wicked rollercoaster, but you can do this. Isn&rsquo;t it time to give it a serious try? The clock is ticking, and your book&mdash;and its readers&mdash;are waiting.&nbsp;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[On Revision]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/on-revision]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/on-revision#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2022 23:09:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/on-revision</guid><description><![CDATA[If revision is re-vision, a re-seeing, we might understand it specifically as a shift from seeing our&nbsp;work through the eyes of its writer to seeing our work through the eyes of the reader.&rdquo;&mdash;Peter Ho Davies  &#8203;I&rsquo;ve been thinking and reading a lot about revision lately. This spring I taught three classes with a focus on revision, and I have been working 1-1 with a poet in Dubai. A key book that&rsquo;s been refining my thinking is Peter Ho Davies&rsquo; The Art of Revis [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote style="text-align:center;"><span>If revision is re-vision, a re-seeing, we might understand it specifically as a shift from seeing our&nbsp;</span>work through the eyes of its writer to seeing our work through the eyes of the reader.&rdquo;<br />&mdash;Peter Ho Davies<br /><span></span></blockquote>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;I&rsquo;ve been thinking and reading a lot about revision lately. This spring I taught three classes with a focus on revision, and I have been working 1-1 with a poet in Dubai. A key book that&rsquo;s been refining my thinking is Peter Ho Davies&rsquo; <a href="https://www.graywolfpress.org/books/art-revision">The Art of Revision</a>. (Read an <a href="https://www.pw.org/content/the_art_of_revision_black_box?fbclid=IwAR203VxiIU8Z0il8ZtJmXpgNMQvMkFyM4dQS2dc_tsArnOsRq15-WvayJtA">excerpt</a>.) Sometimes reading craft books can feel like a slog, but Davies&rsquo; writing is direct, clear, and funny. At the size of a large postcard, and just 170 pages, this tiny gem packs the punch of a senior seminar. It&rsquo;s practical, smart, and inspiring: a game-changer for writers of all genres.<br />&nbsp;<br />A few main points Davies makes in the book:<br />&nbsp;<br />1.Create a revision mindset&mdash;The practice of revision requires curiosity, a willingness to try, a patience to explore. We often jump into the weeds too soon and start nitpicking over diction or punctuation. What a way to kill the buzz! Instead, what if you approached revision as an act of discovery and exploration? An experiment to learn more about this thing you&rsquo;re interested in, or to uncover a deeper meaning?<br />&nbsp;<br />2.Revision is a thought experiment&mdash;Davies compares revising fiction to conducting a science experiment. Remember those from school? You&rsquo;d come up with a hypothesis and test it? That&rsquo;s what writers do. Like scientists, they follow leads to see what they can learn. Too many new writers dismiss this exploration as a waste of time, whereas scientists see a disproven hypothesis as a good thing! It gives them information, it eliminates a path and re-directs us in a fresh direction, as we take what we learned along with us. Those extra scenes or chapters you wrote taught you a bunch of things, and got you where you ended up with more confidence. Win-win.<br />&nbsp;<br />3.Revision is about expansion&mdash;Revision is not just chopping. I can&rsquo;t say this enough to my students. If writing is thinking (and we know that it is), then revision is expanding the text to discover what else is there, to gather more information, then contracting again when you&rsquo;ve learned what there was to learn. Davies refers to the very draft itself as breathing&mdash;and I love that. It reminds us that our writing is a living this, so hacking away at it is not a great idea. As Davies notes, &ldquo;We might understand expansion as the form patience takes on the page.&rdquo; Brilliant!<br />&nbsp;<br />With practical suggestions and helpful tips, Davies addresses a lot in this book, including:<br /><ul><li>ways to reimagine revision so that workshopping is easier and more effective</li><li>why to push past the shiny idea and not quit</li><li>how to uncover or find the heart of what you&rsquo;re really writing about</li><li>how to know when you&rsquo;re done and avoid over-editing something to death</li><li>the importance of revising titles and how a &ldquo;holding title&rdquo; can often limit us</li><li>encouragement to resist easy workshop advice to just chop off &ldquo;problems&rdquo; and instead follow those tangents into new territory that stretches you and your work</li></ul>&nbsp;<br />I could go on, but I hope you&rsquo;re getting the picture!<br />&nbsp;<br />In addition to <em>The Art of Revision</em>, I want to share with you two wonderful online magazines that are determined to take the mystery out of revision: <a href="https://www.draftjournal.com/">Draft</a> for prose writers, and the terrific <a href="https://www.underbellymag.com/">underbelly</a> for poets. Both journals show different versions of a piece, and include the author&rsquo;s commentary about the revision process. I hope you&rsquo;ll check them out and let me know what you think!<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Book Nerds! Here's a bunch of great books to read and a great new way to track your reading]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/book-nerds-heres-a-bunch-of-great-books-to-read-and-a-great-new-way-to-track-your-reading]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/book-nerds-heres-a-bunch-of-great-books-to-read-and-a-great-new-way-to-track-your-reading#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2022 20:42:35 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/book-nerds-heres-a-bunch-of-great-books-to-read-and-a-great-new-way-to-track-your-reading</guid><description><![CDATA[    Photo by Tim Wildsmith / Unsplash    &#8203;I&rsquo;ve always been a glass-half-empty kind of girl. Maybe one of the few good things that has come out of this time of isolation has been more time to read.&nbsp;In 2020,&nbsp;I read 51 books. This year, I read 61 books (or 16,825 pages - thank you, StoryGraph!)This year I moved from Goodreads to&nbsp;StoryGraph. I was a pretty spotty user of Goodreads, but after I read more and more&nbsp;troubling news&nbsp;about Goodreads (no surprise, since  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/published/book-bricks-tim-wildsmith.jpg?1641070451" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Photo by Tim Wildsmith / Unsplash </div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br />&#8203;<span>I&rsquo;ve always been a glass-half-empty kind of girl. Maybe one of the few good things that has come out of this time of isolation has been more time to read.</span><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><span>In 2020,&nbsp;I read 51 books. This year, I read 61 books (or 16,825 pages - thank you, StoryGraph!)</span><br /><br /><span>This year I moved from Goodreads to&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.thestorygraph.com/" target="_blank">StoryGraph</a><span>. I was a pretty spotty user of Goodreads, but after I read more and more&nbsp;</span><a href="https://time.com/6078993/goodreads-review-bombing/" target="_blank">troubling news</a><span>&nbsp;about Goodreads (no surprise, since it's&nbsp;owned by Amazon!), I made the move, in a quick hot minute, and I am so happy. StoryGraph is free, and it has tons of cool features that a book-geek will love.</span></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/screen-shot-2021-12-31-at-8-36-06-pm_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">One of many charts from StoryGraph about my 2021 reading habits! </div> </div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>  <div class="paragraph">StoryGraph has a recommendations feature that is robust and spot-on. It has really insightful stats and clear graphics about&nbsp;your reading habits and it has a great and fair system for&nbsp;reviews (unlike the shenanigans going on at Goodreads). Last but not least, StoryGraph was founded by an African-American woman &ndash; who doesn&rsquo;t want to support her team rather than give over more personal data to Bezos?<br />&nbsp;<br />The one thing that is missing right now on StoryGraph is a critical mass of people. So, come join me, so we can build a big community on StoryGraph and support them! (Sadly, I made absolutely no money from that 100% honest, but very long bit, I just did about StoryGraph).<br /><br />Here are some&nbsp;of those 61 books that I highly recommend:&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>Poetry:</strong>&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/obit-9781556595745/9781556595745" target="_blank">OBIT</a>&nbsp;by Victoria Chang,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/1919-9781608465989/9781608465989" target="_blank">1919</a>&nbsp;by Eve Ewing,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/the-renunciations-poems/9781644450536" target="_blank">The Renunciations</a>&nbsp;by Donika Kelly,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/nox-9780811218702/9780811218702?__cf_chl_managed_tk__=5OIBFJPm6hE3ZX.F0lwxvlj8i0u3YZyXf_NC684jIP8-1639076069-0-gaNycGzNEOU" target="_blank">Nox</a>&nbsp;by Anne Carson, and <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/girls-like-us-9781942892229/9781942892229" target="_blank">Girls Like Us</a>&nbsp;by Elizabeth Hazen.<br />&nbsp;<br />The most lovely, important collection I read was <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/prognosis-poems/9781644450703">Prognosis</a> by Jim Moore, one of my first poetry teacher. Like many of you, I have been struggling a lot these past two years, and Jim&rsquo;s poems have helped me feel less alone. I haven't written much about the pandemic, or the heartbreak of watching my Minneapolis burn after George Floyd was murdered. These gentle, funny and soulful poems let me enter these recent times in a way that takes note, tends to our fears and grief, and offers a hope that&rsquo;s neither simplistic nor superficial. They are small prayers for all of us, these poems.<br /><br /><strong>Memoir/Essay</strong>: I read a lot of wonderful memoirs and creative nonfiction last year. One of my favorites was&nbsp;<a href="https://www.samanthaclark.net/the-clearing/" target="_blank">The Clearing: a memoir of art, family and mental health</a>&nbsp;by Samantha Clark. I search high and low for books that tell the story of mental illness with accuracy and respect, and I was also very moved by Clark&rsquo;s visual art. Other good reads were&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/girlhood-9781635572520/9781635572520" target="_blank">Girlhood</a>&nbsp;essays by Melissa Febos (I can&rsquo;t wait for her craft book, <a href="https://books.catapult.co/products/body-work-by-melissa-febos">Body Work</a>, coming out in March 2022),&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.hmhbooks.com/shop/books/the-suicide-index/9780547350745" target="_blank">The Suicide Index&nbsp;</a>by Joan Wickersham.<br />&nbsp;<br />Two of my favorites were a wonderful mix of memoir and literary&nbsp;criticism:&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/all-the-lives-we-ever-lived-seeking-solace-in-virginia-woolf/9781524760632" target="_blank">All the Lives We Ever Lived: Seeking Solace in Virginia Woolf&nbsp;</a>by Katharine Smyth and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/a-ghost-in-the-throat/9781771964111" target="_blank">A Ghost in the Throat</a>&nbsp;by Doireann Ni Ghriofa.<br /><br /><strong>Craft</strong>: Literary magazines, writing programs, and publishers are beginning to address their own biased practices. There&rsquo;s work for us all to do&nbsp; - in our work and in our classrooms. I attended some great training sessions rooted in the work of two pivotal books: <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/the-anti-racist-writing-workshop-how-to-decolonize-the-creative-classroom/9781642592672" target="_blank">The Anti-Racist Writing&nbsp;Workshop</a>&nbsp;by Felicia Rose Chavez and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/craft-in-the-real-world-rethinking-fiction-writing-and-workshopping/9781948226806" target="_blank">Craft in the Real World&nbsp;</a>by Matthew Salesses. Other craft books to recommend are&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/a-swim-in-a-pond-in-the-rain-in-which-four-russians-give-a-master-class-on-writing-reading-and-life/9781984856029" target="_blank">A Swim in a Pond in the Rain</a>&nbsp;by George Saunders,&nbsp;<a href="https://books.hippocampusmagazine.com/product/getting-to-the-truth-the-craft-and-practice-of-writing-creative-nonfiction/" target="_blank">Getting to the Truth: the Craft and Practice of Writing Creative Nonfiction</a>&nbsp;from the good folks at Hippocampus,&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.janefriedman.com/the-business-of-being-a-writer/" target="_blank">The Business of Being a Writer</a>&nbsp;by Jane Friedman.<br /><br /><br /><strong>Fiction</strong>: These four novels are truly awesome:&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/true-story-9781984877703/9781984877703" target="_blank">True Story</a>&nbsp;by Kate Reed Perry,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/happiness-9780802127556/9780802129185" target="_blank">Happiness</a>&nbsp;by Aminatta Forna,&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/the-haunting-of-hill-house-9780143039983/9780143039983" target="_blank">The Haunting of Hill House&nbsp;</a>and&nbsp;<a href="https://bookshop.org/books/we-have-always-lived-in-the-castle-penguin-classics-deluxe-edition-9780143039976/9780143039976" target="_blank">We Have Always Lived in the Castle</a>&nbsp;by Shirley Jackson. Over the past two years, I&rsquo;ve read every book of <a href="http://www.lauralippman.net/">Laura Lippman</a> &ndash; a smart Baltimorean who writes good novels and thrillers as well as her fun Tess Monaghan series.<br /><br />I'm already halfway through my first book of 2022 - <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/these-precious-days-essays-9780063092785/9780063092785" target="_blank">These Precious Days</a>, the wonderful new collection of essays by Ann Patchett.&nbsp;<strong><em>What are you reading?</em></strong><br /><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/screen-shot-2021-12-31-at-8-35-49-pm_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Another cool nerdy graph from StoryGraph!</div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Not Sure How to Revise? Baffled by Artist Statements? Make Sure Your Writing is Asking Juicy Questions]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/not-sure-how-to-revise-baffled-by-artist-statements-make-sure-your-writing-is-asking-juicy-questions]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/not-sure-how-to-revise-baffled-by-artist-statements-make-sure-your-writing-is-asking-juicy-questions#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2020 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/not-sure-how-to-revise-baffled-by-artist-statements-make-sure-your-writing-is-asking-juicy-questions</guid><description><![CDATA[       What are the questions your work is trying to answer?&nbsp;All writers and artists have subjects and themes they explore over and over in their work. For the nature sculptor,&nbsp;Andy Goldsworthy&nbsp;(whose work I love), one theme he explores is the ephemeral, so he explores dissolution and time in a variety of mediums&mdash;building ice sculptures to watch them melt at dawn, braiding sticks into a dam to watch them flow downriver. In this way, he discovers more about the parameters of  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/tree_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"><em>What are the questions your work is trying to answer?</em></strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">All writers and artists have subjects and themes they explore over and over in their work. For the nature sculptor,&nbsp;</span><a href="http://www.artnet.com/artists/andy-goldsworthy/">Andy Goldsworthy</a><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;(whose work I love), one theme he explores is the ephemeral, so he explores dissolution and time in a variety of mediums&mdash;building ice sculptures to watch them melt at dawn, braiding sticks into a dam to watch them flow downriver. In this way, he discovers more about the parameters of his materials, and his inquiries.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">For me, some of the themes I&rsquo;m interested in are memory, the body, absence, and identity. (Let&rsquo;s just call them what they are, ok? Slight obsessions!) I explore my obsessions in different ways, from different angles, and in different combinations in my writing.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">I&rsquo;m often drawn to certain topics&nbsp;</span><u style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">because</u><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;they let me explore these themes in a new or different way. For example, I&rsquo;m always curious about phantom limbs&mdash;they&rsquo;re the perfect confluence of my interests in the body, absence, and identity. So, writing a poem in the voice of someone grappling with a phantom limb lets me explore these issues deeper, in a new way&mdash;expanding my understanding, like holding an object up to the light and turning it in all directions.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"><em>What are the ideas or topics that you return to over and over in your writing?</em></strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">My guess is that you already have a pretty good idea what your obsessions are, and what questions your work is trying to answer, but you might not articulated them before. Give it a try&hellip;it will help you shape and focus your work, and make you feel more like an intentional, serious writer.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Your short story or novel&mdash;what is it about? Notice I didn&rsquo;t ask for a summary of the plot. What are the bigger questions you&rsquo;re exploring through your storytelling?</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Most of us know&nbsp;</span><a href="https://bookriot.com/shirley-jackson-books/">Shirley Jackson&rsquo;s</a><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;classic short story,&nbsp;</span><em style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">The Lottery.&nbsp;</em><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">What were the bigger questions she was exploring in that story? Some stuff she was exploring: how people don&rsquo;t question traditions or the larger group, what conformity does to the individual, what is the role of violence in society.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">What issues are you grappling with in your fiction? What are your characters dealing with? By digging deep into the larger issues you&rsquo;re exploring in your work, you will naturally stretch your thinking, and in doing so, complicate and strengthen your work, and deepen its impact.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">For a poet, focusing your poems on a couple of themes is a great way to build a cohesive collection&mdash;whether a full-length book or a smaller chapbook. Once you know what your themes are, then you can see how poems that might seem unrelated (a poem about a phantom limb, an elegy for my mother, a poem about the gaps between music notes) can fit well in one poetry collection, talking to each other about those subjects in different ways.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">This ability to look objectively at your work is important for all writers, no matter what genre. Being able to discuss your work and its themes, and why they intrigue you, is a key element of an Artist Statement. Most applications&mdash;to attend a graduate program or writing residency, or to win a grant&mdash;will ask you to write a brief Artist&rsquo;s Statement.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">New writers often get the Artist Statement all wrong&mdash;they think it&rsquo;s a resume, or a biography with flowery language. (No!) One thing that separates a serious writer from a beginner is their ability to talk about their work, to articulate their themes, explain their creative process, and to connect their creative inquiry to larger issues. Panelists are looking for this level of professionalism in an application.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Most of life&rsquo;s questions don&rsquo;t have easy answers--</span><em style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">what does it mean to be a true friend? how does systemic racism take hold of a young girl and her doll?</em><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&mdash;but they make great stories. These questions inspired E.B. White and Toni Morrison to pull us into their creative inquiries as they wrote to better understand Charlotte and Pecola, and discovered some answers (which probably led to more questions) along the way.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"><em>Waiting to find the answer before you start to write?</em></strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">You can hear how wonky that plan is. Many writers think they have to have it all figured out&mdash;the last line of the poem, the emotional nooks and crannies of every chapter&mdash;before they&rsquo;ll begin. (I am&nbsp;</span><u style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">not</u><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;saying don&rsquo;t outline your novel!) But trust me, it is&nbsp;</span><em style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">during</em><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;the act of writing in which you figure stuff out. So, don&rsquo;t wait until you&rsquo;ve forgiven your mother to write that memoir&mdash;instead, write about your mother from every angle, write about your relationship, describe memories and conversations, write about that unforgivable thing. And in the process of writing about all of that, you will discover the answers to the how and why of forgiveness.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"><em>Not sure how your questions connect to become a bigger inquiry? Ask the work itself.</em></strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">I often tell my students and private clients to interview their poem, or piece of prose. Open your journal and write down these questions--</span><em style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">What are you trying to tell me? What do you need me to do next?--</em><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">and let the writing answer. When the writing is done with its answer, ask it the other question. Over and over, back and forth, digging deeper until you get to something surprising, or have a new insight to guide your revision.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">With a piece I&rsquo;m working on now, I&rsquo;m trying to organize a number of different essays and poems into one hybrid memoir. My memoir is exploring girlhood, and violence (among other things). Some of the questions I&rsquo;m asking my work are:&nbsp;</span><em style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">How does this piece relate to my themes of girlhood and lack of safety?</em><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;If it doesn&rsquo;t, it probably doesn&rsquo;t belong here. I have a piece about contagion in 18th century New England, and another about environmental poisoning--</span><em style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">what are the connections there? What roles do science, and secrecy play in these subjects?&nbsp;</em><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Perhaps I&rsquo;ve found a strong angle to follow by including this in the collection. And so the experimentation continues.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">With a sense of play and curiosity, I take stabs at answering these questions by freewriting in my journal. As I explore the similarities and points of departure, new connections get made that guide me toward the next draft. Those connections can also become seams in one specific piece, as I build this patchwork of fragments into a cohesive essay.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)"><em>Already know the answer before you&rsquo;ve even begun?</em></strong><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Then don&rsquo;t bother writing that thing! Seriously. Either your answer is too obvious (the birthing ground for clich&eacute;s!), or your question isn&rsquo;t big enough. That&rsquo;s what Robert Frost was getting at when he said, &ldquo;no surprise for the writer, no surprise for the reader.&rdquo; If your writing&rsquo;s question isn&rsquo;t compelling to you, how will your search for the answer be interesting enough to keep you energized through a handful of drafts? How will it keep the reader&rsquo;s attention?</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Yes, your questions may change, or evolve. Life changes (becoming a parent, watching your parents age, losing a loved one) or engaging in social issues often prompt new questions, take our writing lives in new directions. That&rsquo;s a wonderful thing.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(62, 62, 62)">Don&rsquo;t be afraid to ask the juicy, messy questions. The point isn&rsquo;t to have all the answers. The point is to ask questions that encourage you to dig deep, that scare you a little bit, that stir your curiosity, that lead your creative self from one clue to the next, enjoying the search all along the way.</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Re-imagining Social Distancing]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/re-imagining-social-distancing]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/re-imagining-social-distancing#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2020 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/re-imagining-social-distancing</guid><description><![CDATA[       We've almost made it through&nbsp;three weeks of Shelter-in-Place&nbsp;in Maryland - kids are home from&nbsp;school and we're learning how to manage the new world of&nbsp;physical distancing.I prefer the term "physical distancing" over "social distancing" because it's more accurate, and if anything, we need to find&nbsp;more&nbsp;creative ways to "close&nbsp;the gap" and connect socially with others during these uncertain times. I've been making more "check in" calls to family members. Wh [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/light_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">We've almost made it through&nbsp;three weeks of Shelter-in-Place&nbsp;in Maryland - kids are home from&nbsp;school and we're learning how to manage the new world of&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">physical distancing</strong><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">I prefer the term "physical distancing" over "social distancing" because it's more accurate, and if anything, we need to find&nbsp;</span><u style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">more</u><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">&nbsp;creative ways to "close&nbsp;the gap" and connect socially with others during these uncertain times. I've been making more "check in" calls to family members. What's a way you're increasing your social connections? What's something new you might try?</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">Another way to think about the term "social distancing" is&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">giving people in your life more space</strong><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">Everyone is dealing with a lot - more stress,&nbsp;</span><a href="https://hbr.org/2020/03/that-discomfort-youre-feeling-is-grief" target="_blank">collective grief</a><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">, lots of uncertainty. People deal with stuff in different ways. So, maybe you get an email from a co-worker that is&nbsp;extra snippy. What if you practiced some "social distancing" with them and just gave&nbsp;them some space with their anxiety, and cut them a bit of slack? What if you chose not to shoot off your own "reply all" and took a few breathes instead? It's rough out there, and everyone is doing the best they can. Where could you make some&nbsp;space, or cut someone some slack right now?&nbsp;(That person might be you!)</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">Wherever you are with this pandemic is OK.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">Personally, I'm&nbsp;day to day, sometimes hour by hour! It's exhausting.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">All the more reason to be patient with ourselves and others.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">Limit your news consumption. Take&nbsp;time to rest and re-charge.</span><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Use This National "Re-Set" to Explore your own Priorities]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/use-this-national-re-set-to-explore-your-own-priorities]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/use-this-national-re-set-to-explore-your-own-priorities#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2020 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.melaniefigg.net/blog/use-this-national-re-set-to-explore-your-own-priorities</guid><description><![CDATA[       This pandemic has got a lot of us thinking about what it might look&nbsp;like on the other side of this - both the gloom and the good.What good changes might come out of this?&nbsp;Better hand washing, for sure. Hopefully more companies supporting telework as an option. More creative ways to work together to solve problems. (One of my favorite Win-Win solutions is our local shelter, Shepherd's Table, is partnering with local restaurants to keep restaurants open and feed the homeless by ha [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:5px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:10px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.melaniefigg.net/uploads/8/3/9/9/8399790/published/winter.jpg?1608057805" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">This pandemic has got a lot of us thinking about what it might look<strong><em>&nbsp;</em></strong>like on the other side of this - both the gloom and the good.<br /><br /><strong><em>What good changes might come out of this?&nbsp;</em></strong>Better hand washing, for sure. Hopefully more companies supporting telework as an option. More creative ways to work together to solve problems. (One of my favorite Win-Win solutions is our local shelter, Shepherd's Table, is partnering with local restaurants to keep restaurants open and feed the homeless by having&nbsp;<a href="https://shepherdstable.networkforgood.com/projects/95930-neighbors-feeding-neighbors" target="_blank">people donate and buy meals</a>.)<br /><br />Scaling back, sheltering in place, being forced to slow down - all this has begun to awaken something deep in us.&nbsp;<strong>We're seeing what really matters to us.</strong>&nbsp;Family. Friends. Being kind to others. Less social media, more nature. Offering help to strangers. Spending our work life doing something that matters.<br /><br /><em><strong>What do you want the next ten years of your life to look like? How might you shift your life to be more in line with your values, your real passions?&nbsp;</strong></em>Some of you have been circling that inquiry for a while. Maybe now is a good time to begin exploring some new options.</span><ul style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)"><li>What if you could bring a new perspective to your current&nbsp;job?</li><li>What if you began laying the groundwork now for what's next?</li><li>Time to take a chance on that side-hustle, or long-held dream?&nbsp;&#8203;&#8203;</li></ul><br /><span style="color:rgb(117, 117, 117)">I'm offering a deep 30% discount on 6-month coaching packages right now.&nbsp;<em><strong>If you started exploring and stretching your wings now, what might your view be by the end of September?&nbsp;</strong></em>Contact me for more details or just go ahead and schedule a&nbsp;<a href="https://figgcoaching.as.me/FreeChemistrySession" target="_blank">complimentary conversation</a></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>